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gay bar pickup question... - 2020-06-29
this question is for men that go to gay bars to pick up men, as
someone that wants to be "picked up or hit on", how
or what should i do or wear to better my odds?..and yes i'm
a bottom....thanks!
13 response(s),
25
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Should the site notify when someone has blocked a user? - 2020-06-28
I have found out in a few instances like 2 or 3 that I cannot
post on someone's advice lines post and I never made
a personal attack on them. Fair's fair I will add them
to my list which contains three members. <br><br>
Another option is the site block also works both ways. they
are added to your auto-block list which I could get behind.
Why should they have the right to ...
48 response(s),
39
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Feeling shy about first meets.. - 2020-06-20
I know this seems obvious.. but does anyone else get bad
anxiety from crippling shyness the closer the date of a
meet gets! i'm a bag of nerves! does it get better?!
how do you cope? always work out or never worth the pain of
it all in the end?
43 response(s),
37
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What do you do if no woman will talk to you or give you sex for 20 years - 2020-06-19
I have been on the Internet for 20 years since Jan. 1999 when
I built my company URL. Never had to work or pay a bill ever
since. So for 20 years I joined every "dating"
site I could find on the Internet because I got fooled by
my own computer into believing I could find a girlfriend
there. After 2 decades of "chatting" with "
profiles" I have never talked to any ...
27 response(s),
10
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Can't broadcast privately - 2020-06-18
Our cam is working fine. We can broadcast publicly, but
we can't broadcast privately. Doesn't work when we try to send our cam in another member's
chat room, or when we try to click the public/private button
on the bottom left of our cam screen. <br><br>
What is the deal? <br><br>
Help! <br><br>
Thanks! <br><br>
CC4U
14 response(s),
16
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Polite/respectful vs pushover doormat milquetoast - 2020-06-18
Is it difficult for women to tell the difference between
the two? <br><br>
My general demeanor is polite/respectful, but over the
last 20 years and primarily via internet rather than real
life where they can observe to know better, too many women,
once they get comfortable, make the mistake of assuming
they can just step on me, try to take over my life/home, chase
away my friends, ...
21 response(s),
13
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Opening Lines - 2020-06-16
I recently added a couple photos to my profile and the # of
contacts increased dramatically. It's been interesting.
Why would somebody send 1 or 2 word messages? I'm sorry
but 'sup? (well not even a word) is going to be ignored
in person or online. Are these simpletons TRYING to sabotage
themselves?
24 response(s),
35
votes
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Meeting a like minded couple - 2020-06-14
Why is it so hard to meet a like minded couple?? We've
meet a few couples in person that we had great chats with.
Then once in person you realize all if not most communication
was all from one of the spouses and not both. Personality
doesn't match to their online presence. One is hot
and the other is a dud!? Personality wise.... or you get
all chat and no meet, a meet up is discussed ...
11 response(s),
14
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Not much meeting going on - 2020-06-13
I've been on here for 2 years and have had one meet with
a women and it was less than stellar. I have sent to many messages
to count through email or IM and I mainly get no response
or rejected politely. Should I be more Direct in my messages
rather than the conventional ?Hello, How are you?"
I have a hard time sending expansive messages when the likelihood
of a response is low. ...
22 response(s),
16
votes
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Lost stamina - 2020-06-12
Came back from my deployment and i feel like i lost a lot if
my stamina. It hasnt improved much and i dont last as long
as i used too. Any tips?
18 response(s),
11
votes
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BECOMING CELIBATE - 2020-06-11
I just turned 47 and yes that is my body working out works
. I have been on this site for a very long time. I met very nice
guys made friends with some and also did hengout with a couple.
The last guy i met was recently.He is a guy i have always wanted
and dreamed off . Things went well until a 2 weeks ago things
changed. Communication died down and we don't hengout
anymore.He says he likes ...
26 response(s),
22
votes
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Watching your partner - 2020-06-09
Do women think it's HOT to watch their man pleasing
another woman? I love to watch the woman I am with, with another
man or woman. But she doesn't always seem to be into
it in reverse.. is this normal?
30 response(s),
17
votes
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Any luck from this site. - 2020-06-02
Is it easy to find a friend on this site. Any one had experience
with couples M/F on from this site?
54 response(s),
30
votes
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Need input from the guys on here. - 2020-06-01
I have been asked to do a photoshoot for a female model friend
of mine. She is not sure what type of shots we need to take
so I am going to throw it out there and let you all help decide.
<br><br>
What is/are your favorite shots of women... naked or dressed?
<br><br>
Examples: Upskirt, Downblouse, bent over naked, legs
crossed, holding boobs up with arms crossed, ...
38 response(s),
28
votes
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Can one cam in secret - 2020-05-31
It's undeniably easier to hide your identity as a man
when caming all the action is down below. How about us women
who want to keep our faces secret. Any tips tricks thoughts?
29 response(s),
22
votes
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Exhibitionism - 2020-05-30
If you were seen having sex, would it be more embarrassing
or exciting if its was someone you knew? If it was exciting being seen by someone you knew, who would
be most exciting to be seen by? Friend, Relation or Workmate?
14 response(s),
16
votes
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Indoor or Outdoor Sex - 2020-05-30
Do you folks have a preference for indoor or outdoor sex
and if so, is there a partiuclar reason for your choice?
<br><br>
L&G x
21 response(s),
11
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How do I cum harder? - 2020-05-30
Anybody know any tricks, tips, secrets to cum harder?
24 response(s),
18
votes
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Blogs - 2020-05-28
Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following
about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using
them anymore. Why is that?
19 response(s),
5
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Blogs - 2020-05-28
Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following
about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using
them anymore. Why is that?
1 response(s),
0
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Why Anal Sex? - 2020-05-26
For the ladies in particular, men can chime in as well. What
is the fixation with anal? I once had a girl friend who liked
it. I did it to please her, only once or twice, but was not
a fan. I get notices from ladies saying they want a guy to
do it to them. How many are saying that and really want it
or just think all guys want it? Ladies, your thoughts, comments??
45 response(s),
20
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Can one safely play with a partner who has herpes? - 2020-05-25
A woman I know wants IT bad but has herpes. She says she takes
a daily med and is safe with a 2% chance of contracting herpes
through sexual contact. She further claimed that the transmission
comes from skin-to-skin, not genitals. That's a 1
in 50 chance! I don't like those odds. <br><br>
Should I? And if I do what extra precautions should I take?
Serious and humorous ...
32 response(s),
34
votes
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New here--Any advice on what type of person to avoid? - 2020-05-24
I would like advice from someone more seasoned on this site.
Is there a 'tell' early on that someone might be
bad news?
13 response(s),
9
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SEX TOYS - 2020-05-22
i have always wondered why people use toys during sex . I
have never had the interest in being aroused by the use of
toys alone or with a partner.I feel like i might get addicted
to using them more. I know many guys enjoy using them on a
woman and vice versa . I prefer to not have them. What are
the advantages and disadvantages of using sex toys ?
29 response(s),
31
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Confirm you ID. Is it safe? - 2020-05-21
Question for those who gave Transgenders.se - Transgender sexkontakt i Sverige, shemale dejting - Transgenders.se their real name and uploaded
their government identification. Have you had any problems
from that?
29 response(s),
17
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Cam Scam, what does this mean? - 2020-05-20
So I posted a pic and this was the comment, I am
not 100% sure but I think this is insinuating something
like I'm not real or a scam? Totally confused, can someone explain this? And of course, this person is blocked!!!...
22 response(s),
20
votes
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Increased Interest! - 2020-05-19
Might seem a bit of a silly question, but whats the best way
to get increased interest on here?! I've been on and
off the site for a couple of years and never managed to get
a meet or any email responses (and i must have sent 100 by
now!) except one! A girl who exchanged numbers and we got
very friendly but after i year i realised she was never going
to meet and she never did lol. Perhaps my ...
9 response(s),
8
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all about the benjamins - 2020-05-18
what do i do if my partner and i always end up arguing and money?
sex is great. every thing else is great except our money
issues!!
10 response(s),
26
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Instant messaging help - 2020-05-18
Where do my previous instant messages go? When I leave the
screen and come back they are all gone.
6 response(s),
15
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Instant messaging help - 2020-05-18
Where do my previous instant messages go? When I leave the
screen and come back they are all gone.
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